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This Ain’t It: Reclaiming Identity After Workplace Burnout with Lisa Hurley Pt. 1

S9 Ep 14

This Ain’t It: Reclaiming Identity After Workplace Burnout with Lisa Hurley Pt. 1

Have you ever looked around at your job, your life, and thought, “This ain’t it”?

In this deeply personal and energizing conversation, Felicia sits down with author, activist, and Reiki Master Lisa Hurley to talk about her new book, Space to Exhale — a guide to healing from the inside out after the grind of corporate life has worn you down.

Lisa shares her own journey of identity loss, job trauma, and spiritual exhaustion — and how she found her way back to joy, softness, and sovereignty. From navigating layoffs and toxic managers to redefining self-worth outside of titles and roles, this episode is a must-listen for every Black woman trying to hold it together in systems designed to tear us down.

If you’re tired of holding your breath at work, wondering how you even got here, this conversation is your reminder to pause, breathe, and begin again — on your own terms.

In this episode, we unpack:

  • Why your job title is not your identity
  • How burnout disconnects you from your purpose
  • The pressure to “make your parents proud” — and at what cost
  • The emotional toll of constantly code-switching
  • What it means to love yourself through the unraveling
  • How to reclaim your voice, body, and energy after surviving toxic workplaces

Plus: Felicia shares how corporate gaslighting and PIPs shaped her own journey, and why she stopped smiling through the pain. And Lisa? Let’s just say she’s got a fairy wand, a tutu, and some radical truth to sprinkle on your spirit.

This is part one of a two-part series with Lisa Hurley. Make sure to catch Part 2 dropping next week.

Resources & Next Steps:

Click Here to Order Space to Exhale

Want a free copy of Lisa Hurley’s powerful new book, Space to Exhale?

🎁 We’re giving away 5 copies — but to enter, you’ll need to listen to Part 2 of this conversation (dropping June 22, 2025) for the full instructions and giveaway question. 📬 Hint: You’ll be asked to reflect on how you’re making space to breathe in your own life. First 5 thoughtful responses win. Deadline to enter is Sunday, June 29, 2025.

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💼 Career Consulting with Felicia – Facing challenges at work? Book a career strategy session to get personalized strategies for navigating your career.

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Until next time, keep it trill! 🎙️✨

Master the Art of Power: Success Excuses (Almost) Everything

S9 Ep7
In this episode, Felicia wraps up the 7 Rules of Power series with Rule #7 from Dr. Jeffrey Pfeffer’s book Seven Rules of Power: Once You Gain Power, Whatever You Did to Get It Will Be Forgotten, Forgiven, or Both.
Getting power is one thing—but keeping it? That’s where the real career management begins. In this power-packed finale, Felicia breaks down what it takes to sustain success, defend your position, and show up with unshakable leadership and influence.

Use Your Power or Lose It: The Career Move That Separates Leaders From Everyone Else

In this episode, Felicia breaks down Rule #6 from Dr. Jeffrey Pfeffer’s book Seven Rules of Power: Use Your Power.
Let’s be honest—many of us have been taught that power is dangerous or reserved for “those people at the top.” But Felicia is here to shift your mindset. You’ve worked hard, built influence, and learned how to play the game… now it’s time to make power moves.
Power isn’t something you hoard—it’s something you use. And if you don’t use it? You lose it.

How to Network Relentlessly (Without Feeling Fake)

S9: E5
In this episode of the Trill MBA Show, Felicia breaks down Rule #5 from Dr. Jeffrey Pfeffer’s book Seven Rules of Power: Network Relentlessly.
Let’s keep it real: networking often feels transactional, awkward, or like something “extroverts do.” But Felicia flips that narrative. Networking isn’t about schmoozing—it’s about building genuine, mutually beneficial relationships.

If you’re only reaching out to people when you’re in need (like after a layoff), it’s time to shift your strategy. Your network is your net worth—and the people who know your name today could be the ones opening doors for you tomorrow.

How to Command Presence and Project Power in Any Room

S9:E3
In this episode of the Trill MBA Show, Felicia breaks down Rule #3 from Dr. Jeffrey Pfeffer’s book Seven Rules of Power: Appear Powerful

If you’ve ever thought, “I should be judged by my work, not my presence,” it’s time for a reality check—perception drives influence. The way you walk into a room, how you speak, and how you carry yourself signals power before you even say a word.

How to Break the Rules (Strategically) and Get Ahead at Work

S9: E2
In this episode of the Trill MBA Show, Felicia dives into Rule #2 from Dr. Jeffrey Pfeffer’s book Seven Rules of Power: Break the Rules (but do it strategically).
If you’ve been working twice as hard, following all the rules, and still feel stuck, it’s time to shake things up. The reality? Power doesn’t reward compliance, it rewards confidence. The people who rise in their careers don’t just follow the book; they strategically bend and break the rules to their advantage.

The Power of Mindset in Career Success

S9 Ep 1
In this powerful kickoff to Season 9 of the Trill MBA Show, Felicia explores the first rule from Dr. Jeffrey Pfeffer’s book Seven Rules of Power: Get Out of Your Own Way.

Mental Health, Therapy, and Thriving at Work for Black Women

S8: Ep 7
Discover the importance of mental health and therapy for Black women in the workplace. Join Felicia Ann Rose Enuha and her therapist, Shacolby Dedmond, as they discuss strategies for thriving at work, setting boundaries, and practicing self-care. Learn how therapy can help Black women navigate corporate challenges and build supportive communities.

Becoming The Boss: How To Develop the Mindset and Skills for Effective Management

S7: Ep 37
In this episode, Felicia discusses the important transition from being an individual contributor to a team leader. In order to be the Boss, you need a mindset shift and the development of key skills such as visionary thinking, effective communication, decision-making, empathy, emotional intelligence, and trust-building. Don’t miss out on this valuable advice to skyrocket your career and become a great leader.

Building Powerful Connections: Networking Strategies for Sponsorship and Mentorship

S7: Ep 27
In this episode, Felicia tackles the fear and misconceptions surrounding networking. She shares practical tips for overcoming fears and creating a networking action plan.

No New Friends? Think Again! Overcoming The Fear of Networking

S7: Ep 26
In this episode, Felicia tackles the fear and misconceptions surrounding networking. She shares practical tips for overcoming fears and creating a networking action plan.

Navigating Career Changes: How To Change Industries and Functions

S7: Ep 24
In this episode, Felicia shares her personal journey of wanting to transition her career and offers valuable tips, tricks, and tactics for navigating career changes.

The Workplace Is Counter-Intuitive

S7: Ep 23
In this episode, Felicia discuss overcoming the challenges and frustrations of the workplace by building your confidence, developing relationships, and going to therapy.

Company Culture Part 2

S7: Ep 6
In this episode, we talk through identifying your company’s culture, identifying the successful narratives in that culture, and adjusting your style to thrive in that culture.

Company Culture Part 1

S7: Ep 5
In this episode, Felicia starts to breakdown one of the most important, yet often misunderstood workplace dynamics: Company Culture.

Setting The Tone!

S7: Ep 1
In this Season 7 Premier episode, Felicia sets the tone for 2023. She walks us through setting a vision for yourself that is life focused and career supported.

The Year of Paid & Promoted

S6: Ep 1
In this episode, we start the year and Black History Month off RIGHT by DECIDING this is the year of PAID and PROMOTED! So if you are ready and willing, let’s get started!

Companies Are F-boys, Treat Them Accordingly

S5: Ep 28

In this episode, I’m here to challenge your perspective around the fear of setting boundaries at work.

If work is stressing you right now, and you feel like you have no options, this episode is for you.

A FARE Update: Take Your Vacation

S5 Update 2

In this short update, I want to take a minute to talk about what’s coming up after the Memorial Day holiday.

A FARE Update: Q1 2021

S5 Update

In this episode, an update about what’s happening with me, my thoughts on relationship building, and how getting to your next role is probably not going to be because you blindly submitted an application online.

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